Men and women engage in anal sex and it can be safe with proper condom use, lubrication, care and communication. Any types of sex requires consent, meaning all partners agree to have sex and to the type of sex. Remember – engaging in sexual activity is a personal choice and setting personal boundaries is super important!

Anal tissue is very different from vaginal tissue. The anus does not self-lubricate and it’s more prone to tiny tears and abrasions than the vaginal canal. Anal sex can put someone at a high risk for contracting STIs. This means it’s really important to use a condom and plenty of lubrication. Water or silicone based lubricant is best, because it won’t weaken a latex condom – avoid oil based lubricant like Vaseline and ltion. Good lubrication and latex condoms are available for free at Teen Clinic or for purchase at your local convenient store.

Communication is another really important aspect of any type of sex. Talk with a partner before sex about getting tested for STIs, acquiring the appropriate protection, what type of sex you’ll be having and your personal boundaries. Talk with a partner during sex to make sure that nobody is in pain or discomfort. talk with a partner after sex about your likes and dislikes. All this talking will help make the relationship happy, healthy and safe.

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